August 26th, 2010 by Sydney
Four weeks and my shoulder is finally healing a bit. It still has its testy moments but all in all, it’s better. It has to be. I have too much work to do and it’s slowing me down. I actually made out a list of things I need to accomplish before the cold weather arrives and believe it or not….I’m running out of time. Ick!
In my last post, I spoke about a couple dates I had lined up. I have another tomorrow for lunch but that’s another story which I will tell you about later. So…for all you out there wondering what goes on in a woman’s head, pay attention. I introduced Keith and Mike a couple weeks ago. I will start with Keith. After some conversation, Keith and I made plans to do some shopping (antique) and then have lunch in one of the small towns close by that has a great Margaritas and food. Keith knew up front I wasn’t looking for anything more than just someone to go to lunch with and have a good time…something NON-SEXUAL and PLATONIC because I need to step away from it occasionally. Seriously, it can be saturating at times.
So the night before our date, he has a “confession” to make. NEVER use that word to a woman before a date. Alarm bells go off all over the place. This is where I find he has been married 4 times, has this need for sex in a party pack and is looking for a woman who isn’t a PRUDE. Seriously? What part of Platonic didn’t I explain right? Prude? Me? Good thing he doesn’t know what I do for a living. STRIKE ONE! Ok…so again I explain myself BEFORE we meet up. He is fine with it blah blah blah. We walk around for a couple hours at the Antique place and then it was time to head out for lunch. I had been looking forward to this all week. We get to his Mini Cooper …~le sigh~ and he says to me…
“Do you really want to go to Margaritaville? I know a great place a few minutes from here”
Ok guys, here is the tricky part. YES…I wanted to go to Margaritaville but he is driving and being polite I will go with his suggestion and get my own damn Margarita’s! Can you hear STRIKE TWO ringing in your ears? So off we go in his lil putt putt car and he takes me to….wait for it…..COUNTRY BUFFET because they just lowered their prices! Nothing screams out “I’m not getting any and neither are you!” more than COUNTRY BUFFET. SSSTRIIIKE THREE AND YOUR OUT!!
So …I’m going to share a lesson with you guys that my Uncle taught me. When you ask a woman out, it’s because you want to spend time with her. There are no promises or expectations of sex except in your mind. YOU are paying for the opportunity to just spend time with her and show her the best time you can and maybe, she will want to see you again. Do NOT send naked pics of yourself before your first date. Do not hide things like a marriage or 14 kids….be honest and stop plotting to get laid. If she likes how you treat her, she might accept another date with you and then maybe more later.
Now I was curious what had happened with this dating fiasco and asked some guy friends I have. One guy told me “all men are dogs”. Sorry, I don’t think that is a good enough excuse. LOL. I like my Uncle’s advice. When you take me to dinner, it’s to show me you want to spend time with me…not to get in my pants and I don’t owe you anything. Time for men to step up and stop being “dogs “as my friend says.
I talk to so many of you in a day and I really like the guys I have phone sex with. You are hot, sexy, imaginative and just plain fun. I’m so glad I have you all to come home to when the cruel world outside spits me out at Country Buffet…LOL
Xoxoxox
Sydney
P.S. I will tell you about my date with Mike in a day or so. I need to recover now from this post…hehehe
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August 11th, 2010 by Sydney
It’s now nearly 5:00 AM and I have been working on updating a few things on my site. It’s hell when you are tired and your brain won’t stop..LOL. So I added pricing to my specials page, removed some dead links and updated my Shopping Page. I am going to be adding extra services to my menu too. I will be offering IM sessions and email blocks for those of you stuck at work and unable to speak out loud. Or…like Ian..who’s roomies never go away. LOL
I haven’t been able to sleep well due to a pulled shoulder. Not sure what I did but the thing is nearly 2 weeks and slowly getting better. Now I can go without some sleep and I really don’t have to pick things up or lift my arm to put things away….but I can’t use my vibe!! Now that just sucks!! I think I tore a muscle in cap of the shoulder and trust me, I never knew how much I used that! I was so horny the other day that when I tried to play, I found it just wasn’t going to happen. Arrrggghh!! Somebody save me!
Thursday is a bright spot this week. I will be gone all day and be home in the evening. I have a date! Keith is picking me up around 10:00 AM for some Antique shopping and then Margarita’s at one of the hot Baja Mexican food places. Now I don’t drink very much but I’m a sucker for Frozen Margarita’s. We will see what else the day brings. ~whispers~ I know it’s hard to believe, but he already sent me a pick of him in his underwear…LOL. The man has no idea what I do for a living and I’m not telling him. ~rolls laughing~
I also have a breakfast date for Monday with Mike. Those are the two dates so far. I am working on plans with David, Larry and Kevin. Now I know you are wondering but since moving here, I have made myself available for all of you nearly all the time. I decided it was time for me to get out and away from the house renovation, landscaping jobs, the computer and although I love my family, I need a break from them too. I mean a girl has to have a life beyond all that right? It will be hard because I want to be here to play with you too but…I figure if you really want to talk to me, you will call when I’m here and fuck me good!
Ok…I have to get back to some tweaks and twiddles on the site. For those who know me, give me a call and let’s have some nasty fun. Any new guys checking out this site, Mmm…have I got some hot fun waiting for you too. Bring it on boys!!
xoxoxox
Sydney
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August 5th, 2010 by Sydney
As usual, I am late in posting. I can’t help it. No matter how hard I try, I have come to the conclusion that my life is busy and not always in a sexual nature…LOL. Since my last post, I have gotten some of my yard work done and a new roof on the house! The work crews have been awesome. I found this new general contractor and the man knows how to work and is smart too. He got 11 tons of my gravel done in 3 hours and has made some very good suggestions for my watering system. I may have to fuck that man. ~sighs dreamily~ A man who knows how to use his tools is hot in my book.
Speaking of books, I finally got a few of mine listed for sale. I doubt they will bring a decent price but they are pretty old and need some loving care. Keep your fingers crossed for me.
Brad called the other day to refresh my memory of why I love having phone sex with that man. Hopping up ontop and riding him into a “happy place” is a blast! Afterwards, we talk and just enjoy each other. I love it. Matthew has also called a few times to get that big mushroom head of his polished. ~laughs~ You keep coming Matthew…I will take good care of you sexy.
Between the men in my yard, on my house and on my phone, this girl keeps herself very busy. I’m glad for it. I wish I could have more. I have come to realize that I’m not bored. I’m always doing something or someone. It’s never ending and I like it that way. So, I’m here…waiting for you. Be adventurous, call me while your at work and just listen while I make you so hot you nearly pass out holding back. Call me from the side of the road (yes, pull over first) and let me play with you while people whizz by. Anywhere and anytime. Let’s have some fun!!
Sydney
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