Crash in Margaritaville…

August 26th, 2010 by Sydney

Four weeks and my shoulder is finally healing a bit.  It still has its testy moments but all in all, it’s better.  It has to be.  I have too much work to do and it’s slowing me down.  I actually made out a list of things I need to accomplish before the cold weather arrives and believe it or not….I’m running out of time.  Ick!

In my last post, I spoke about a couple dates I had lined up.  I have another tomorrow for lunch but that’s another story which I will tell you about later.  So…for all you out there wondering what goes on in a woman’s head, pay attention.  I introduced Keith and Mike a couple weeks ago.  I will start with Keith.  After some conversation, Keith and I made plans to do some shopping (antique) and then have lunch in one of the small towns close by that has a great Margaritas and food.  Keith knew up front I wasn’t looking for anything more than just someone to go to lunch with and have a good time…something NON-SEXUAL and PLATONIC because I need to step away from it occasionally.  Seriously, it can be saturating at times. 

So the night before our date, he has a “confession” to make.  NEVER use that word to a woman before a date.  Alarm bells go off all over the place.  This is where I find he has been married 4 times, has this need for sex in a party pack and is looking for a woman who isn’t a PRUDE.  Seriously?  What part of Platonic didn’t I explain right?  Prude?  Me?  Good thing he doesn’t know what I do for a living.  STRIKE ONE! Ok…so again I explain myself BEFORE we meet up.  He is fine with it blah blah blah.  We walk around for a couple hours at the Antique place and then it was time to head out for lunch.  I had been looking forward to this all week.  We get to his Mini Cooper …~le sigh~ and he says to me…

“Do you really want to go to Margaritaville?  I know a great place a few minutes from here”

Ok guys, here is the tricky part.  YES…I wanted to go to Margaritaville but he is driving and being polite I will go with his suggestion and get my own damn Margarita’s!  Can you hear STRIKE TWO ringing in your ears? So off we go in his lil putt putt car and he takes me to….wait for it…..COUNTRY BUFFET because they just lowered their prices!  Nothing screams out “I’m not getting any and neither are you!” more than COUNTRY BUFFET.  SSSTRIIIKE THREE AND YOUR OUT!! 

So …I’m going to share a lesson with you guys that my Uncle taught me.  When you ask a woman out, it’s because you want to spend time with her.   There are no promises or expectations of sex except in your mind.  YOU are paying for the opportunity to just spend time with her and show her the best time you can and maybe, she will want to see you again.  Do NOT send naked pics of yourself before your first date.  Do not hide things like a marriage or 14 kids….be honest and stop plotting to get laid.  If she likes how you treat her, she might accept another date with you and then maybe more later. 

Now I was curious what had happened with this dating fiasco and asked some guy friends I have.  One guy told me “all men are dogs”.  Sorry, I don’t think that is a good enough excuse.  LOL.  I like my Uncle’s advice.  When you take me to dinner, it’s to show me you want to spend time with me…not to get in my pants and I don’t owe you anything.  Time for men to step up and stop being “dogs “as my friend says. 

I talk to so many of you in a day and I really like the guys I have phone sex with.  You are hot, sexy, imaginative and just plain fun.  I’m so glad I have you all to come home to when the cruel world outside spits me out at Country Buffet…LOL

Xoxoxox

Sydney

P.S.  I will tell you about my date with Mike in a day or so.  I need to recover now from this post…hehehe

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What’s new…

August 11th, 2010 by Sydney

It’s now nearly 5:00 AM and I have been working on updating a few things on my site.  It’s hell when you are tired and your brain won’t stop..LOL.  So I added pricing to my specials page, removed some dead links and updated my Shopping Page.  I am going to be adding extra services to my menu too.  I will be offering IM sessions and email blocks for those of you stuck at work and unable to speak out loud.  Or…like Ian..who’s roomies never go away.  LOL

I haven’t been able to sleep well due to a pulled shoulder.  Not sure what I did but the thing is nearly 2 weeks and slowly getting better.  Now I can go without some sleep and I really don’t have to pick things up or lift my arm to put things away….but I can’t use my vibe!!  Now that just sucks!!  I think I tore a muscle in cap of the shoulder and trust me, I never knew how much I used that!  I was so horny the other day that when I tried to play, I found it just wasn’t going to happen.  Arrrggghh!!  Somebody save me!

Thursday is a bright spot this week.  I will be gone all day and be home in the evening.  I have a date!  Keith is picking me up around 10:00 AM for some Antique shopping and then Margarita’s at one of the hot Baja Mexican food places.  Now I don’t drink very much but I’m a sucker for Frozen Margarita’s.  We will see what else the day brings.  ~whispers~  I know it’s hard to believe, but he already sent me a pick of him in his underwear…LOL.  The man has no idea what I do for a living and I’m not telling him.  ~rolls laughing~ 

 I also have a breakfast date for Monday with Mike.  Those are the two dates so far.   I am working on plans with David, Larry and Kevin.  Now I know you are wondering but since moving here, I have made myself available for all of you nearly all the time.   I decided it was time for me to get out and away from the house renovation, landscaping jobs, the computer and although I love my family, I need a break from them too.  I mean a girl has to have a life beyond all that right?  It will be hard because I want to be here to play with you too but…I figure if you really want to talk to me, you will call when I’m here and fuck me good!  

Ok…I have to get back to some tweaks and twiddles on the site.  For those who know me, give me a call and let’s have some nasty fun.  Any new guys checking out this site, Mmm…have I got some hot fun waiting for you too.  Bring it on boys!!

xoxoxox

Sydney

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Never ending..

August 5th, 2010 by Sydney

As usual, I am late in posting. I can’t help it. No matter how hard I try, I have come to the conclusion that my life is busy and not always in a sexual nature…LOL. Since my last post, I have gotten some of my yard work done and a new roof on the house! The work crews have been awesome. I found this new general contractor and the man knows how to work and is smart too. He got 11 tons of my gravel done in 3 hours and has made some very good suggestions for my watering system. I may have to fuck that man. ~sighs dreamily~ A man who knows how to use his tools is hot in my book.

Speaking of books, I finally got a few of mine listed for sale. I doubt they will bring a decent price but they are pretty old and need some loving care. Keep your fingers crossed for me.

Brad called the other day to refresh my memory of why I love having phone sex with that man. Hopping up ontop and riding him into a “happy place” is a blast! Afterwards, we talk and just enjoy each other. I love it. Matthew has also called a few times to get that big mushroom head of his polished. ~laughs~ You keep coming Matthew…I will take good care of you sexy.

Between the men in my yard, on my house and on my phone, this girl keeps herself very busy. I’m glad for it. I wish I could have more. I have come to realize that I’m not bored. I’m always doing something or someone. It’s never ending and I like it that way. So, I’m here…waiting for you. Be adventurous, call me while your at work and just listen while I make you so hot you nearly pass out holding back. Call me from the side of the road (yes, pull over first) and let me play with you while people whizz by. Anywhere and anytime. Let’s have some fun!!

Sydney

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Horny!

July 12th, 2010 by Sydney

While I have been busy as hell, things are slowing down!  Hard to believe but true.  While phone sex is my savior from all the tasks at hand, I still find time for so many other projects.   So I will start there and then tell you all about the sexy men who call.

First, I have gotten back into my stained glass work and did a piece for a friend of mine.  I have pics somewhere but don’t feel like searching them out to show you.  LOL.  I have started more work on the yard and yesterday got 6 tons of royal granite gravel delivered only to find out it’s about half of what I need for both drives.  Who knew 6 tons was so little?  Ugh.  Anyway, I have to finish spreading it …the rock I mean.  Come on Guys, get your mind out of the gutter!

I have been making venison jerky too!  Some has turned out nicely and some I’m not too fond of.  I don’t thing Teriyaki is one of my favs.  You all know how much I love chewing on meat….ahem.

Anyway, that aside, I have been having a blast!  Matthew calls me weekly and he is such a horny man.  He loves when I play with his mushroom head and I get him so worked up. ~laughs~  Such a stud.  Ooooo!!  Guess who finally came back to the fold!  TINTIN!!  That lil bunny that I adore.  I just want to sit on his cute face and squirm!  God I’m horny today.  Oh oh…and Ian was able to call me last week too.  Poor guy has to kill some roomies or something.  He doesn’t get any pussy while they are around.  But then again, Ian prefers taking my ass as much as he can.  Mmmmm….then there is Brad!  I love when he calls and I get to ride his dick.  He is such a world traveler..LOL.  But seriously, love playing with him and laying across his lap while he teases my pussy and gives special attention to my cheeks! 

Ok…I have to go find my vibe, I am too horny to think straight.  Call me!!  Lets have some hot phone sex!

Loves ya,

Sydders!!

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Anniversary!

April 20th, 2010 by Sydney

Yep…we have been here 1 Year now. This place is awesome and so stress free. The owners have given us an Anniversary Special! You can check it out on The Phone Sex Bar!

Ok, I’m ready for my chastising now.  As you may have noticed, I haven’t posted in a long time.  I got stuck.  No other way to put it.  I got a heavy dose of Cabin fever and even all the hot phone sex calls couldn’t get me to sit and write.  All I wanted was to be outside and so, I went…as much as I could.  I had company in from Alaska in March, hit a few craft shows, have been and still am working on my property (which is looking awesome by the way), and just got out!  Would you believe I have a tan already?

Anyway, I’m back and those of you who do read my blog, can tune in again.  I know not everyone does…LOL.  Today I will just start there.  As for all of you who have been calling, you never fail to keep me hot in all the right places.

Sydney

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What is “Sexy”

February 23rd, 2010 by Sydney

On a daily basis I talk to a butt load of people who are very sexy.  For me thats not difficult.  To clear up a misconception, I am NOT running around 24/7 naked, half dressed (well not entirely), wearing lingerie and heels, or have a sex toy buzzing inside me constantly.  That’s not realistic nor practical.  I definately would not get anything done!  LOL.

But I do get to play with “sexy”.  Each phone sex call is mini erotica for me.  I get a moment to sample “sexy”.   I have callers like Ian who just love my ass!  Yes…he loves anal sex and isn’t afraid to admit it.  Right Ian?  Michael loves big titted girls and loves to see us in tight shirts.  I know pushing them around his cock as he slides it between them drives him to shoot all over and he is so deliciously grateful. 

I have callers with all kinds of turn ons even a generous girlfriend who pays for a call with her boyfriend just to spice things up.  How cool is that!  I love doing two girl phone sex with the girls on The Phone Sex Bar as well.  I mean can you see me and Roxie getting it on …ON YOU?  But this is what our fantasies are..hot, sexy, nasty, no limit sex. 

What I want to know now is what do you find sexy in real life.  When there are no big titted, naked girls running across your front yard, washing your car, or smothering you, what is truly sexy to you?  I know when I go to the store, I can see a good looking man in jeans and a t-shirt that makes me pause.  I find smiles sexy and they have to go all the way up to the corner of a man’s eyes….not one of those fake smiles.   The way a man looks at ME can make me shiver with excitement too.  So what is sexy?

I would love to hear about your turn on’s…fantasy and reality.  Tell me about your turn-offs too!   Want to know what mine are?  Ask me baby!

Love you all!

Sydney

PS.   Oh…wanted to share some very cool pics I took over the past couple days when some fog and cold weather hit. Check it out in “MY Album” Section.

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Shake it out….

February 15th, 2010 by Sydney

Ok..I’m all caught up with the myriad of projects I had going and now I can shake out the wrinkles here!  That’s not to say you all have wrinkles somewhere but that I need to tighten things up!  Errr….umm…well you know what I mean.

Ok…this is not going as I had planned.  Bottom line is even tho I am online and logged in for calls most of the time, I am not always going to be on IM’s.  I will post a schedule.  However, if I’m not answering IMs that doesn’t mean I am not taking calls.  But jeez…even my ass needs a rest from the computer.  So pick up the phone and give me a break!

It can been hard sometimes to always be entertaining with no feedback…LOL.  Conversation takes minimum of two people unless you have someone else in your head you like to converse with.  So please take time to comment on things you want to see or hear about.  Comment on posts that inspire a point of view.  I honestly find it hard to even try to post sometimes because no one is chiming in to help give me some ideas. 

I want to write about things that turn you on, peak your interests, and fire up those synapses in your brain.  Ok…maybe thats a stretch when your cock is trobbing but I want to be the girl making it throb so come talk to me about your turn on’s. and lets get NASTY!  ~grins~

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Sex and Depravity…

February 8th, 2010 by Sydney

Interesting question I think. So which is which? Having done so many phone sex calls and talking to so many people with different fantasies and fetishes, it kind of makes you wonder. By definition, depravity is Moral corruption or degradation. But by WHO’S definition? I started thinking about this due to a conversation with a family member about the phone sex business in general. They wanted to know where I draw the line and what I think is too much.  I really had to think this over.  I have done many kinds of calls and enjoyed all of them and those I don’t, I do not accept. So I wanted to break this down a bit.

I have AB’s and DL’s who love being cuddled, changed, and treated just like babies. Some enjoy the domination portion more than the nurturing side of things. Diapering them and making them eat Mommy’s pussy sends a few spiraling while others enjoy the humiliation they get when I make them “announce” their infantilism publicly. Hmm…is that degradation? Not for those who enjoy it…LOL.

What about age play? Mmm…those special “Daddies” who fantasize their special lil girls.  Those sweet lips wrapped around daddy’s big cock or giggling as she teases Daddy?  Or how about that young boy chasing his hot Mommy?  He is full of raging hormones and seeing his Mom just turns him on…better yet, someone else’s MOM!!   It’s fantasy and never goes beyond that. 

How about some Domination?!!  Let me fuck you in the ass and make you whimper like a lil girl. Hooded, gagged, bound, and used for my personal fun. Or how about the slave made to suck cock for me?  Keep in mind I’m very mild compared to Alexandra and that girl knows how to rock!  Ok…now I’m getting wet and really turned on by all these situations.  Oooo….but again, is that depravity? 

I did a bit of looking around and found that different cultures, eras, books and idealists all have their ideas of what Sex is allowed and what sex is considered taboo/depraved.  Same sex is spoken about often in the bible and laws/rules made to discourage and prevent it changed depending on who wanted or needed something.  Its all about control (Church and State?).  I think so, but on a personal level I think that depravity is anything you FORCE on another unwilling person….Period!   As long as I agree to bend over, it’s Sex!  And I love sex…lots of it. 

Sydney

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Happy Birthday to….

January 28th, 2010 by Sydney

Ian and Pussy!  Two of my favorite callers share a birthday today.  I can’t wait to play with you and spank those sexy asses!   Ok ok…Ian you can spank mine and I will spank Pussy’s.  LOL.  I hope you both have a great day!

Loves ya,

Sydney

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Catching my Breath

December 29th, 2009 by Sydney

Christmas was a whirl wind and honestly, I had a lot of fun but I’m glad it’s over! My party was a success and everyone rolled out of here happy and content with bulging tummies. Tho there were a few I’m sure had some other bulging issues. A few cocktails here and there always make for some interesting situations. ~winks~ Needless to say, my Cordials went over very well!

I was worried my phone sex playmates would be busy as well and I would feel a definate withdrawl but my sexy saviors were there for me! I had so many hot calls and guys wanting to take advantage of the hot Christmas Special. The winner of the special was Tim and he called me yesterday to collect his 20 free minutes. Mmm…love abusing him and making him moan in pain/pleasure. With him, its hard to tell which it is. LOL.

Ok…a New Year is coming up so PLEASE check out my Specials Page and keep updated on it. The specials listed are still good and I need those Birthday emails! I will be thinking up a hot Special For New Year’s Eve. Right now…you guys can name your special as long as it is one that has existed or is currently with us. Basically, adding 5 minutes to any call for free until New Years.

Ok…need to go to lunch with Mom.  See you when I get back!!

Sydney

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