Crash in Margaritaville…

August 26th, 2010 by Sydney

Four weeks and my shoulder is finally healing a bit.  It still has its testy moments but all in all, it’s better.  It has to be.  I have too much work to do and it’s slowing me down.  I actually made out a list of things I need to accomplish before the cold weather arrives and believe it or not….I’m running out of time.  Ick!

In my last post, I spoke about a couple dates I had lined up.  I have another tomorrow for lunch but that’s another story which I will tell you about later.  So…for all you out there wondering what goes on in a woman’s head, pay attention.  I introduced Keith and Mike a couple weeks ago.  I will start with Keith.  After some conversation, Keith and I made plans to do some shopping (antique) and then have lunch in one of the small towns close by that has a great Margaritas and food.  Keith knew up front I wasn’t looking for anything more than just someone to go to lunch with and have a good time…something NON-SEXUAL and PLATONIC because I need to step away from it occasionally.  Seriously, it can be saturating at times. 

So the night before our date, he has a “confession” to make.  NEVER use that word to a woman before a date.  Alarm bells go off all over the place.  This is where I find he has been married 4 times, has this need for sex in a party pack and is looking for a woman who isn’t a PRUDE.  Seriously?  What part of Platonic didn’t I explain right?  Prude?  Me?  Good thing he doesn’t know what I do for a living.  STRIKE ONE! Ok…so again I explain myself BEFORE we meet up.  He is fine with it blah blah blah.  We walk around for a couple hours at the Antique place and then it was time to head out for lunch.  I had been looking forward to this all week.  We get to his Mini Cooper …~le sigh~ and he says to me…

“Do you really want to go to Margaritaville?  I know a great place a few minutes from here”

Ok guys, here is the tricky part.  YES…I wanted to go to Margaritaville but he is driving and being polite I will go with his suggestion and get my own damn Margarita’s!  Can you hear STRIKE TWO ringing in your ears? So off we go in his lil putt putt car and he takes me to….wait for it…..COUNTRY BUFFET because they just lowered their prices!  Nothing screams out “I’m not getting any and neither are you!” more than COUNTRY BUFFET.  SSSTRIIIKE THREE AND YOUR OUT!! 

So …I’m going to share a lesson with you guys that my Uncle taught me.  When you ask a woman out, it’s because you want to spend time with her.   There are no promises or expectations of sex except in your mind.  YOU are paying for the opportunity to just spend time with her and show her the best time you can and maybe, she will want to see you again.  Do NOT send naked pics of yourself before your first date.  Do not hide things like a marriage or 14 kids….be honest and stop plotting to get laid.  If she likes how you treat her, she might accept another date with you and then maybe more later. 

Now I was curious what had happened with this dating fiasco and asked some guy friends I have.  One guy told me “all men are dogs”.  Sorry, I don’t think that is a good enough excuse.  LOL.  I like my Uncle’s advice.  When you take me to dinner, it’s to show me you want to spend time with me…not to get in my pants and I don’t owe you anything.  Time for men to step up and stop being “dogs “as my friend says. 

I talk to so many of you in a day and I really like the guys I have phone sex with.  You are hot, sexy, imaginative and just plain fun.  I’m so glad I have you all to come home to when the cruel world outside spits me out at Country Buffet…LOL

Xoxoxox

Sydney

P.S.  I will tell you about my date with Mike in a day or so.  I need to recover now from this post…hehehe

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What’s new…

August 11th, 2010 by Sydney

It’s now nearly 5:00 AM and I have been working on updating a few things on my site.  It’s hell when you are tired and your brain won’t stop..LOL.  So I added pricing to my specials page, removed some dead links and updated my Shopping Page.  I am going to be adding extra services to my menu too.  I will be offering IM sessions and email blocks for those of you stuck at work and unable to speak out loud.  Or…like Ian..who’s roomies never go away.  LOL

I haven’t been able to sleep well due to a pulled shoulder.  Not sure what I did but the thing is nearly 2 weeks and slowly getting better.  Now I can go without some sleep and I really don’t have to pick things up or lift my arm to put things away….but I can’t use my vibe!!  Now that just sucks!!  I think I tore a muscle in cap of the shoulder and trust me, I never knew how much I used that!  I was so horny the other day that when I tried to play, I found it just wasn’t going to happen.  Arrrggghh!!  Somebody save me!

Thursday is a bright spot this week.  I will be gone all day and be home in the evening.  I have a date!  Keith is picking me up around 10:00 AM for some Antique shopping and then Margarita’s at one of the hot Baja Mexican food places.  Now I don’t drink very much but I’m a sucker for Frozen Margarita’s.  We will see what else the day brings.  ~whispers~  I know it’s hard to believe, but he already sent me a pick of him in his underwear…LOL.  The man has no idea what I do for a living and I’m not telling him.  ~rolls laughing~ 

 I also have a breakfast date for Monday with Mike.  Those are the two dates so far.   I am working on plans with David, Larry and Kevin.  Now I know you are wondering but since moving here, I have made myself available for all of you nearly all the time.   I decided it was time for me to get out and away from the house renovation, landscaping jobs, the computer and although I love my family, I need a break from them too.  I mean a girl has to have a life beyond all that right?  It will be hard because I want to be here to play with you too but…I figure if you really want to talk to me, you will call when I’m here and fuck me good!  

Ok…I have to get back to some tweaks and twiddles on the site.  For those who know me, give me a call and let’s have some nasty fun.  Any new guys checking out this site, Mmm…have I got some hot fun waiting for you too.  Bring it on boys!!

xoxoxox

Sydney

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Never ending..

August 5th, 2010 by Sydney

As usual, I am late in posting. I can’t help it. No matter how hard I try, I have come to the conclusion that my life is busy and not always in a sexual nature…LOL. Since my last post, I have gotten some of my yard work done and a new roof on the house! The work crews have been awesome. I found this new general contractor and the man knows how to work and is smart too. He got 11 tons of my gravel done in 3 hours and has made some very good suggestions for my watering system. I may have to fuck that man. ~sighs dreamily~ A man who knows how to use his tools is hot in my book.

Speaking of books, I finally got a few of mine listed for sale. I doubt they will bring a decent price but they are pretty old and need some loving care. Keep your fingers crossed for me.

Brad called the other day to refresh my memory of why I love having phone sex with that man. Hopping up ontop and riding him into a “happy place” is a blast! Afterwards, we talk and just enjoy each other. I love it. Matthew has also called a few times to get that big mushroom head of his polished. ~laughs~ You keep coming Matthew…I will take good care of you sexy.

Between the men in my yard, on my house and on my phone, this girl keeps herself very busy. I’m glad for it. I wish I could have more. I have come to realize that I’m not bored. I’m always doing something or someone. It’s never ending and I like it that way. So, I’m here…waiting for you. Be adventurous, call me while your at work and just listen while I make you so hot you nearly pass out holding back. Call me from the side of the road (yes, pull over first) and let me play with you while people whizz by. Anywhere and anytime. Let’s have some fun!!

Sydney

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Horny!

July 12th, 2010 by Sydney

While I have been busy as hell, things are slowing down!  Hard to believe but true.  While phone sex is my savior from all the tasks at hand, I still find time for so many other projects.   So I will start there and then tell you all about the sexy men who call.

First, I have gotten back into my stained glass work and did a piece for a friend of mine.  I have pics somewhere but don’t feel like searching them out to show you.  LOL.  I have started more work on the yard and yesterday got 6 tons of royal granite gravel delivered only to find out it’s about half of what I need for both drives.  Who knew 6 tons was so little?  Ugh.  Anyway, I have to finish spreading it …the rock I mean.  Come on Guys, get your mind out of the gutter!

I have been making venison jerky too!  Some has turned out nicely and some I’m not too fond of.  I don’t thing Teriyaki is one of my favs.  You all know how much I love chewing on meat….ahem.

Anyway, that aside, I have been having a blast!  Matthew calls me weekly and he is such a horny man.  He loves when I play with his mushroom head and I get him so worked up. ~laughs~  Such a stud.  Ooooo!!  Guess who finally came back to the fold!  TINTIN!!  That lil bunny that I adore.  I just want to sit on his cute face and squirm!  God I’m horny today.  Oh oh…and Ian was able to call me last week too.  Poor guy has to kill some roomies or something.  He doesn’t get any pussy while they are around.  But then again, Ian prefers taking my ass as much as he can.  Mmmmm….then there is Brad!  I love when he calls and I get to ride his dick.  He is such a world traveler..LOL.  But seriously, love playing with him and laying across his lap while he teases my pussy and gives special attention to my cheeks! 

Ok…I have to go find my vibe, I am too horny to think straight.  Call me!!  Lets have some hot phone sex!

Loves ya,

Sydders!!

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4th of July!

July 2nd, 2010 by Sydney

HAPPY 4TH OF JULY!! It’s a well earned Holiday weekend with tons of things to do as well as attend lots of BBQs! But let’s take a moment to remember those who made it possible for us to do so. I personally wish to Thank all the Men and Women who have given so much so I can feel safe and enjoy the things I have. Thank you.

That being said, I am going to give free time to all phone sex callers over this weekend, starting today (Friday) and ending Sunday night at Midnight YOUR TIME ZONE! ~grins~ How much free time will depend on your past call history and how much time you buy this weekend.

I have been busy working on my glass again. More so because I have someone who has ordered an item from me. It feels good to get back into it again and while unpacking, I realized just how long it’s been. I’m glad to have my work shop back. And when not on a hot phone sex call, thats where I am most of the time. So you will have to understand if my IMs are not as active as usual. LOL….if you want me, you better call me!

It’s early here…before 6 AM and I need some coffee. Talk again soon and have a great weekend if I don’t get to talk to you!!

xoxoxo

Sydney

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Fun House Mirror Part 2

June 25th, 2010 by Sydney

The phone sex industry is constantly evolving or should I say a constant state of flux. As clients become more “aware” and experienced, they accept what is truth and what is fantasy…making room for the new boys on the block who are enrapt strictly in the fantasy. What do you mean? Well I find that first time callers are so excited and nervous that they are either too shy to speak or stumble poorly over their words. It’s cute!

I remember Seasher….his first call to me ever, he barely spoke. I could romance him and tell him how much I wanted to suck his cock but he barely made a peep and the only thing I heard from him was that final gasp when he came. He has been calling for over 5 years now and has become very vocal and extremely hot over the phone! I swear the man can become pro.

Contrary to what most men think, PSO’s do not wake up in corsets, heels and stockings. Our hair is mussed and we do stumble through our own morning routines. I need encouragement to get horny just like anyone else. I DO know where my pussy is and don’t often need to be told to “find” it. It is frustrating for any PSO to get that call where we are asked at 4:00 AM, “What are you doing?” Ummm….Finding my pussy of course! Just kidding.

I personally work from my home so of course in between hot calls, I do my own personal thing and occasionally, I sleep. But the cool thing about phone sex is, I can be and do anything I want!! I can be a 7 foot Amazonian woman for all those with a Giantess fetish. I can also be 7 inches tall for the Micro Fetishists. I can be any age you desire and even though I have pictures on my listings, I can be blonde, red headed, brunette or any other color you desire. Phone sex is a place you can cut loose and be who you wish to be or who you are deep inside.

When you stand in front of the mirror, who do you see? Are you a pretty little sissy in pink panties or a sexy girl who wants to be treated like a whore? Do you have a teeny cock that everyone laughs at or are you a Pineapple King who can core a whole pineapple on his dick? Love that pineapple by the way. ~winks~ Always fun to eat off. The point is, Phone sex is hot, imaginative and fun! Not every girl can “fit” every caller and some guys are just plain assholes. ~gasp~ Dare I say it? You bet your ass I do. Just because we do phone sex for a living doesn’t mean we are stupid bitches. Many women supplement their income this way for whatever personal reasons they have. Some are going through school to be lawyers, doctors, and have a myriad of degrees. Some are stay at home moms who need to work. Regardless, all are sexy and hot and give 100% of their time to their Callers.

This is a place for YOU to come and be who YOU are and fulfill your needs. Here you can let the stress roll off, be pampered, sucked, fucked, spanked, humiliated, tied down, turned into a cuckold, whatever it is that turns you on. I personally love it all and it makes me happy to hear that rush of excitement from my phone sex caller. I want to hear that orgasm and the grateful sigh of relief. I love it and that’s why I do it, it’s why I’m here.

Sydney

P.S. To Ian, I’m looking forward to your hands on my ass! Kevin, my God! When you take a woman to lunch, you really mean it. I just loved being your main course with your face buried in my pussy. What’s for dessert? Mmm

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Finally

June 22nd, 2010 by Sydney

The Graduation ceremonies are over, the shopping, cooking, visiting relatives…all over.  I have been very busy since my last post and while I have tons yet to do, I feel a sudden restful period.  By that I mean I don’t have to move at anyone elses schedule but mine. 

My second sister left last week after spending 6 days here giving me a hand with some other things I needed help with.  We took the Cog Railway to the top of Pikes Peak and got a couple cool pics.  I had forgotten she is afraid of heights so I didn’t push her too hard to look over the edge  ~grins~  We must know our limits afterall.  

Through all the chaos, the phone sex calls kept coming and it was definately fun to sneak off to play while she was doing other things.  My family is cool with what I do but no sense in making them jealous all the time..LOL.  I speak to a myriad of people with all kinds of interests.  I’m still waiting for more Sissy Chrissy pictures.  That bitch better get the lead out!  Pussy is suppose to send more pics as well.  Pussy when shopping at the mall while we spoke again and busily flashed that sexy bra to anyone who was looking.  What a slut.

I will be doing another post on the “Fun House” segment soon.  I just need to gather my thoughts and they are way too scattered right now.  However, if any of you even bothered to notice the hot new tweet on The Phone Sex Bar, you might be surprised to find a special deal!  I just love giving things away. 

Sydney

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My Fun House Part 1

May 21st, 2010 by Sydney

I decided to talk about some of the “myths” of phone sex or as I like to call it, “The Fun House Mirrors of Phone Sex”. This may be done over a few postings only because it encompasses so much stuff!

Every PSO (Phone Sex Operator) has his/her own reasons for doing phone sex. For some its the kicks or just killing some time. Others it is a way to feed families, pay bills and eek out a living. For me, it was a life saver. I have been in this industry for 6 years now. Hard to believe when I think about it. I had lost a good job and could not find one that would support the lifestyle I had. I didn’t have any extra goodies but I did rack up some huge debt that I could afford to pay off when I was working. But the minute I lost my job, I was unable to pay off anything and within a very short time, even collecting unemployment, I was about to be without a roof over my head. It was depressing. Jobs that were offered were 1/3 the income I was use to making. It would have cost me to actually go to work!

So I got my start in the Phone sex Business. I mean, how hard could it be? I found out. LOL I had always been an open minded girl and felt I was sexually knowledgeable. I was quickly educated that I wasn’t. I was a babe in the woods and wolves were circling….on both sides.

I learned fast that there was a lot of sexual proclivities out there that I had no inkling of and that men who pay for Phone Sex, expect you to know what they need and do it well. Not an unfair requirment. If you can’t or won’t deal with their kinks, they expect you to tell them instead of trying to muddle through it. So like anyone intersted in doing a job well, I studied and learned. I asked my guys to explain things to me and many of them were happy to do so. I am grateful for their time.

The other side was the Phone Sex Companies. Not all are bad but there are some that would stab their own mothers in the back if they had mothers. My first job was with one of such places. Phone Sex is so competative, that some owners (if working as a PSO), will actually cut their noses to spite their face just to be the “Best”….well as they see it anyway. To my way of thinking, there is NO BEST anywhere. Just DIFFERENT. Each person gives their view of what is hot and what turns them on. How can one person be better than another just because they do things differently. ~shrugs~

I’m constantly learning, constantly trying to give my all to my Phone sex callers. All I can ask is that you give me a call and see if we fit each others needs. So this is the beginning of my thought process and how I got started ….my first Mirror in the Fun house. I will post more next time and continue this thread.

Sydney

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Getting back to fun…

May 14th, 2010 by Sydney

It’s 7:00 AM and I have been up most the night. The phone has been ringing on and off and my pussy has been playing all night. No…not MY pussy…but my kitty. That lil ball of fluff that sometimes starts to resemble a Gremlin at times. I swear she pounces on me just to piss me off. Whatever…

I have been getting back into some of the things I enjoy when not having hot phone sex with the rest of you. I designed a new Stained Glass piece for a friend and started some designs for my Faberge Style Eggs too. I wish there were more of me so I can do all the things I love at one time….LOL. Problem with hobbies is they just keep growing and are expensive!! So I’m counting on all of you to keep me very busy on the phone and save me!

Pussy took her turn in doing that yesterday. We are planning a penis date soon too. Not only is Pussy one kinky Sissy but devilishly fun too! We combined some age play with Sissy dressing and pimping that sexy ass out. Some serious Sissy Training was given before plopping her right in the middle of the street to attract some customers. But Pussy loves her Mommy and will do anything to get me my gambling bucks. God I’m such a good mommy!! Pussy you get me some more pictures you lil slut!!

Matthew and I got to play again yesterday too! Matt is a hot Canadian who just loves sticking his face between my thighs. Well he loves to stick other things there too but he starts with his face…LOL.

I have to sit my ass through a 2 hour class today with very little sleep. But while I’m gone, if you can’t wait for me to come back, don’t forget to check out the other girls at The Phone Sex Bar.

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Anniversary!

April 20th, 2010 by Sydney

Yep…we have been here 1 Year now. This place is awesome and so stress free. The owners have given us an Anniversary Special! You can check it out on The Phone Sex Bar!

Ok, I’m ready for my chastising now.  As you may have noticed, I haven’t posted in a long time.  I got stuck.  No other way to put it.  I got a heavy dose of Cabin fever and even all the hot phone sex calls couldn’t get me to sit and write.  All I wanted was to be outside and so, I went…as much as I could.  I had company in from Alaska in March, hit a few craft shows, have been and still am working on my property (which is looking awesome by the way), and just got out!  Would you believe I have a tan already?

Anyway, I’m back and those of you who do read my blog, can tune in again.  I know not everyone does…LOL.  Today I will just start there.  As for all of you who have been calling, you never fail to keep me hot in all the right places.

Sydney

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